You’ve all heard of the
illustrious Sens…from Sun Yat Sen to Mian Tansen, from Mrinal Sen to Amartya
Sen. This is not about them at all. It’s about us three- Mama Sen, Papa Sen and
Docky Sen. All of us write and have styles of our own. But since we do not
write too often, just decided to club the writings. We will write about
experiences of life, of people we know, we meet, of happiness and sadness, of
fantasy and spirituality…almost everything.
LICENCE TO LIVE
Meet Mr. Mukherjee, a man in his
mid-fifties, medium built and fair. He is said to have a business of his own of
which I have never asked him any more. I meet Mr. Mukherjee on my infrequent
visits to Prayas, an NGO that works for educating 300 odd slum children. The
children go to municipal schools but Prayas gives them educational assistance
which they do not find anyone to help them at home. There are no rooms where
the children study but they sit under the open sky outside shops which have not
yet opened, on mats….monsoon classes are left to your imagination and feeling
how fortunate we were and our children are. This is truly a street school.
Mr. Mukherjee comes to Prayas
every Tuesday, Thursday and Saturday in an auto rickshaw. He carries with him 2
huge steel dabbas which are filled with khichdi he picks up from ISCON, Juhu.
The children bring with them a tiffin box each and at the end of the class,
stand in a queue where Mr. Mukherjee pours a handful of hot fresh khichdi. The
children relish the good food and leave for home thanking the teachers. There
is a little bit of khichdi left behind every day in the dabbas which goes to
the woman who washes the utensils. She has three small kids and this is one
good meal for the family as well.
Talking to Mr. Mukherjee today
who is fondly called the Dabbawalla and has a constant smile on his face, I came to
know of the concept of License to Live. He says every morning when he wakes up,
the first thing he does is to take a handful of bajra and puts it in the small
bowl kept of the window ledge. This bajra is for the birds who come during the
day to eat. Our Dabbawalla said when he does this one act he feels he has earned
his license to live for the day.
If life is a journey and driving
on the road needs a valid driving license, Mr. Mukherjee believes he needs to
renew his license to live everyday. Life is all about giving and sharing. We
are fortunate to have a good life and each one of us can do a bit of good
everyday. The Dabbawalla firmly believes that what he does for people beyond
his own family brings him good fortune, fortune of a smile of a stranger
somewhere which he feels keeps him going.
Have you renewed you Licence to
Live today?
SS
Nice one. From CSR to SR
ReplyDeleteWell written. Truly to impart is to gain..
ReplyDeleteBtw i can relate to bajra bird to our water pot bajra pigeon in balcony
Intro written by SS..
ReplyDeleteDabbawala's story is very good and very beautifully portrayed. To say that this write-up is 'Sensational' could sound a bit cliched but it is indeed a lovely piece - thought provoking and intense. Keep writing. All the best.
ReplyDeleteA bit delayed by the Sens, but worth all the wait. A humble Dabbawala with all his hidden glory revealed through a short story, so endearing and deeply encouraging, probably this is what it is to LIVE. Waiting for many more such life experiences from the Sens desk. Thumbsup on a grand beginning….
ReplyDeleteDear SS, as all of your writing, this opening piece was so much like you; self deprecating, honest, humble and as usual giving the other more importance. The best part is that your take on the Dabbawaala will spread the fire elsewhere and hopefully create Dabbawaalas, Bookwaalas, Shoeswaalas and all the other waalas that will alleviate pain and suffering. Great start. Looking forward to seeing a lot more writing coming up from the Sen trio!
ReplyDeleteKudos Sibesh for a very "Sensible" piece of writing. Good diversion from the boring world of our mundane field. Enjoyed reading and reflecting on Mr Mukherjee and Prayas. Keep it up. Look forward to your next post
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